.A grown-up with a disorganized attachment type, at times referred to as anxious-avoidant attachment style, has a hard time to count on folks. Often in relationships, their behavior is inconsistent and disorderly. Usually, this add-on type builds when one's major caretaker is both a resource of love as well as worry throughout their youth. In their adult years, Viviana discovered herself imitating her mommy's hot-and-cold actions in her personal romantic connections. "I'll be actually really into a person as well as when they're definitely into me, I'm like, 'Okay, you need to leave, feel free to,'" she points out. "The moment they leave, I resemble, 'Hang around, please gone back. Love me.' And after that I'll carry out everything to keep their interest. I observe it with my mama, as well. I wanted to join her. But when I received near to her, that is actually when the belt would show up.".